@ all girls coming to terms w not being straight: i love u, i am proud of u, there is nothing gross or wrong about liking/loving other girls and u are brave and valid and good
you know I once googled how very organized housewives kept their homes super clean. And one thing they suggested was, if a task can be done in less than 2 minutes, do it right away.
And I have to think about this very often when depression tells me to delay doing things, if it tells me something is too much work right now etc.
If I can do it in less than 2 minutes I can do it no matter how exhausting it seems.
That’s what I tell myself. And it works!
I get more done and after 2 minutes I usually realize the pain doing this thing is not so horrible as my brain suggested. And then I keep going and expand the task and get real work done, holy shit
That’s…. actually brilliant. Two minutes is so short, it’s relatively an easy amount of time to FORCE yourself to work on something, even when you’re just completely deflated.
What works really really well for me is to compound annoying tasks that don’t require much thought with something actually pleasant. It took a long time to find the actual pleasant thing, but with audiobooks I can actually end up looking for chores to do because I want to continue listening to the book, and it doesn’t combine well with anything except the most mindless work.
That’s how I cleaned my bathroom top to bottom two weeks ago, after barely being able to pick up empty loo rolls from the floor for…well, months.
you can talk shit and make jokes about minecraft all you want. you can pretend it wasn’t an iconic experience that changed the gaming industry as a whole forever, you can act like minecraft steve isn’t the pinnacle of raw sexual energy til the end of your days, but if you even for a second try and pretend the music in that game isn’t astronomically fantastic, i will completely eradicate you from the living realm
we’re a good chunk into June but heres a reminder that
its ok for lesbians to call women hot! it doesn’t make you perverted or bad for finding women attractive
having the lesbian flag in your icon is amazing! and anyone who automatically associates our flag with terfs and try to give it a bad connotation are people who dont deserve to be in ur life
comp het is real and it sucks to suffer from it, but just bc you do suffer from it doesn’t make you any less of a lesbian!
ignore all the ‘heterosexual lesbian’ and other mogai bullshit that tries to associate lesbians being interested (romantically or sexually) with men. they are just lesbophobes at the end of the day who dont deserve us in their lives
trans lesbians and lesbians of color are to be treasured!! yall are incredibly strong and we love you!
chubby and fat lesbians are amazing and beautiful!
a lot of us struggled to find our identity, and that often meant experimenting or looking into labels that we realize we are no longer comfortable or okay with. that doesn’t make you any less of a lesbian. our journey to self discovery can be a long and hard one (especially on Tumblr) and the concept of being a ‘gold star lesbian’ is toxic and is something that has no affect on how valid you are!
